LIFESTYLE

WHAT IS LIFESTYLE? Lifestyle is the interests, opinions, behaviors, and behavioral orientations of an individual, group, or culture. In short I can say lifestyle is the way or style of living including your styles, behavior, attitudes, daily activities etc The society we live in we normally see different lifestyles of people the way they live, behave, work and the way they dress up etc. Some people in the society live traditionally like old times while some have changed to modern lifestyles, it’s not bad that some still live like old times traditionally instead it’s good that people live according to the way they are comfortable, but we must have a good lifestyle like having good meal (Balanced Diet), physical activities, anger management, be hardworking and not lazy etc, this is called healthy and good lifestyle. Lifestyle is a reflection who you are; our lifestyle communicates a clear message about who we are and how we think. It tells people or gives them a clear message about how we live, dress up, talk, appearance, work etc. It’s not that people judge you by it just shows them that what kind of a person you are maybe disciplined, punctual, hardworking and etc. But sometimes in our society there are some people who just look at our lifestyles and starts judging us without knowing anything who we are, where are we from etc that is not right completely the way we don’t have the right to judge them or anyone similarly the same way they or anyone else has no right to judge us. We may be not working or having career but that doesn’t mean we are useless, sometimes for example in most of the societies girls are judged when they wear short clothes this doesn’t mean that they don’t belong to a good family or they aren’t decent No!! ,That’s how they are comfortable and no one has the right to judge them. “DON’T JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER.” Never ever judge a person by their outer appearance, for example a person maybe short, tall, fat, thin, black or white, some are fast learners while some are slow learners but don’t laugh on them or make fun of them or judge them, respect them if you want to be respected in English we also say “TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.”  So never judge a person by their outer appearance because that’s how the Almighty God has made them, the way five fingers are not the same the same way everyone is not the same God has made everyone different and every person has some special talent inside them, I always think and feel people shouldn't look down on themself, learn to be confident and brave as they are capable of facing all the challenges and problems alone no matter how difficult the situation can be, no matter if someone stands beside you or not.  In short “JUDGING A PERSON DOES NOT DEFINE WHO THEY ARE, IT DEFINES WHO YOU ARE.” It doesn’t matter how people appear from outside what matters is that how they are from inside, their heart, their intentions if that is clean then it doesn’t matter by their outer appearance, for example sometimes though a person dresses up simple but his or her intentions are not good they just pretend to be good but they are not good so that’s why it’s said outer appearance doesn’t matter, in this society mostly girls face a lot of problems because of some people, like some orthodox minded people refuse their children especially girls to persuade their career and get married early, to stop dressing up their way just because of the fear of society and stop girls from going out alone. This is not the time to stop or put restrictions on children whether it’s a girl or boy it’s the time to support them if they want to do something like proceed their educations, build their career first before getting married it’s not that you should support them in everything even if they are wrong No if they are wrong calmly and peacefully explain them that they are wrong and some parents put restrictions because their children’s are wrong Nope if u put restrictions directly without giving them a second chance then like that they will never learn and will continue doing wrong. Trust yourself and your upbringing dear parents or guardians. We should learn on how to have full faith on our children’s and we should try and treat our children equal whether it’s a girl or a boy because times have changed now those times are gone where girls were treated less than boys now it’s the time where girls are not less than boys but equal to boys and more capable than the boys so first change your thinking so you can change the worlds thinking. “LET’S NOT WAIT FOR THE CHANGE, LET’S BE THE CHANGE.” Let’s not wait anyone else to make us realize about this lets realize ourselves and instead make others also realize only then the world will get more developed. Dear people instead of wasting your time in judging people, fighting etc unite and live together as a whole society, make your relationships so stronger that even misunderstandings cannot ruin or destroy your relations. So guys stop sleeping and stand up and improve yourself and make a new version of yourself that will shock everyone. No matter what difficulties, challenges arise in your path always say this to yourself that I can do it. Never think yourself less than anyone and stand up for your rights don’t let your rights be deprived always stand up for your rights and for the truth. Always say this to yourself that “I AM THE BEST.” WHEN YOU BELIEVE IN SOMETHING, FIGHT FOR IT AND WHEN YOU SEE INJUSTICE, FIGHT HARDER THAN YOU’VE EVER FOUGHT BEFORE. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR FUTURE, I HOPE THAT EACH OF YOU WILL TRY BRINGING THE CHANGE IN THIS WORLD ………..