LIFE

WHAT IS LIFE? According to science, life is a concept in biology regarding the characteristics, state, or mode that separates a living thing from dead matter. I believe life means to live/be alive and to enjoy it fully as we live only once. Most people set goals or target in their life and some live only to fulfill their goals/targets and some find hope in those goals which makes them feel worth living despite problems, difficulties, challenges and failures. Most people in life get such pain they never expected or imagined and these pain affects their mental health which also makes them have negative thoughts in their mind, such as suicidal thoughts, harming themselves, ending their lives or running away from problems but in amidst they still try to find hope by giving themselves a chance and setting up goals/targets for themselves which makes them busy with responsibilities and helps overcome the pain, feeling bad or getting more hurt and this happens only if the person is strong and dedicated. Miracles do happen when the person has decided to change their thoughts and also, when someone loved one or stranger helps them get out of this pain. Life is really unpredictable, there are times we never imagine things happening all of a sudden and we get shocked but we should learn on how to face or overcome these problems very bravely and not by running away from them as running away since that is not the solution, every problem has a solution in it but we only have to find the right solution. The only truth to overcome challenges/problems in life is to let go, forgive yourself, forgive the situation, and to accept that the situation is over; you will never be able to move forward. Example of problem mostly people face in life: People in life face a lot of problems so for example, Most of the times I won’t differentiate that mostly it’s a girl but I will say most of the times it’s a girl sometimes or a boy they get pain and betrayal in love or after marriage they face a lot of problems due to which their heart breaks but this doesn’t literally mean that it’s the end of life right ? NO!!! It’s not the end of life people it’s the beginning of life right from here from this heart break or the pain you got you learn a lesson that we must not love someone so blindly, I am not saying that we must not love or fall in love with anyone but to fall in love its fine and marry the person you love its good you will stay happy with the love of your life rather than in forced marriage but I am saying don’t trust them so blindly or don’t just listen to them only or their decisions both as a couple are supposed to discuss on anything before making any decisions and agree on it you both deserve to take decisions together and if both of you are agreeing on it without any force then take a step ahead but example if after marriage the boy says to the girl that you are my wife then you are supposed to listen to me and I am telling you leave your job/career/dreams and be a house wife and take care of the house only No!!!!! ,why should a girl or the wife always sacrifice or make adjustments , Let me tell you guys change your mentality/thinking especially for a girl you have married her and brought her as a wife and not as a slave that she is supposed to just agree with whatever you say, in a marriage trust  and understanding should be not only from the girls/boys side but from both the sides and both should make adjustments and sacrifices only then the relationship will be equal and will balance and love will increase more and relationship will be more stronger, in our country or in this world divorces happen as there is no understanding and each partner is trying to make the other partner down if both partners understand each other well and trust each other then relationship will be more strong and they can defeat all the problems together bravely. So this was just a small example but I would just like to say that life is all about moving on if we keep losing hope in small failures then we will never be able to succeed at the end of the life if not for yourself think about your family and if you don’t have family then think for someone very close to you and move on and live your life happily and accomplish your dreams. “I demolish my bridges behind me – then there is no choice but to move forward.” “There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, But keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world, it's the beginning of a new life.” “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.  I WISH  EVERYONE ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR FUTURE, I HOPE THE DECISIONS YOU WILL TAKE HENCEFROTH WILL BE WISE.